All the Fears About Change
This was a hard blog post to find and read again after so many years. It’s difficult to think back on this painful time of intense identity crisis. And it was definitely a legit crisis for me. I’m not sure…
Category Change
A Letter From My 14 Year Old Self
I found this handwritten note folded into a tight square, with skills of a 14 year old girl teetering on the brink of teenage angst and intense, closeted confusion. Looking back now, I feel so much heartache for this young…
A change for the better?
View fullsize Immediately after sharing these thoughts on my personal Facebook page, ye ole inner critic took over my thoughts… I knew it. Dammit. I’d forgotten about something when I wrote it… What about ALL the onslaught of rage and…
Time for Something New
No doubt, it’s an interesting time to be alive and creating new things on our tiny blue dot… The relics of old notions, like “corporate day jobs”, are fading fast into new ways of working (and being) in the world.…
Negotiating with Fear
Stages of Transformation: Pt. 2 The Feedback I found a tipping point in all the discomfort. I realized, I could either keep the pain (and maybe eventually become the pain). Or I could do something else or take new action…
The process of change…
… … (approximately) Stages of Transformation Pt. 1 Dissonance This is where my personal transition (and that process of change) began. I felt… uncomfortable… And I mean, not like, socks-or–panties-slightly-bunched uncomfortable… I’m talking perpetual, consistent, indescribable discomfort… More like — bunched-socks-and-panties-for-infinity-with-no-opposable-thumbs… So,…
How I’ve Chosen to Change (part 1)
I’m still learning to speak and share my truth—despite any fear that comes along with the process of change. This project is scary AND exciting. Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference. And sometimes fear wins. Sharing any new idea,…